TODAY'S SERMON: DO AS I SAY, NOT AS I DO

Actually it was a foursome since the sex acts between the pastor, his wife and the church assistant also included the church assistant’s wife.
　
PASTOR WHO BANNED ‘INFIDELITY’ FACEBOOK ADMITS: I HAD THREESOME WITH WIFE AND CHURCH ASSISTANT
　
Mail Online
November 21, 2010
　
A pastor who said Facebook was a 'portal to infidelity' has admitted to having threesome sex with his wife and a male church assistant.
　
The Rev. Cedric Miller's secret past was exposed after he ordered church leaders to delete their Facebook accounts or resign.
　
He blamed the social networking website for causing married couples to have illicit affairs and igniting 'old passions'.
　
The 48-year-old leader of the Living Word Christian Fellowship Church in Neptune, New Jersey, confirmed the sex games he played with his wife Kim after his testimony in a court case was revealed.
　
The liaisons often took place at his home during Thursday Bible study meetings and Sundays after church.
　
'It has come to my attention that a very painful part of my past has resurfaced,' Miller wrote in an e-mail sent Friday.
　
'This was resolved at that time and accordingly we will not allow it to detract from our mission at hand to save as many marriages as we can.
　
'My life as a minister, husband, father and friend has led me to the conviction that I must do all that I can to help as many people strengthen, preserve and repair the often times fragile cords of marriage.'
　
Miller described the sexual relationship In his evidence at the 2003 criminal trial of his assistant which was eventually dismissed, according to the Ashby Park Press.
　
Miller said his wife had an extramarital affair with a church assistant and that he was present at many of their meetings. And sometimes the assistant's wife was there too, he claimed.

He added: 'We would talk and laugh and play and just beyond what was appropriate.'
　
Pressed by a defence lawyer to give more detail Miller added: ' we had crossed the line many times, I mean between the four of us.
　
'It was just, I mean there was touching, there was … it was crazy, it was as wrong as wrong could get. Yes.

The lawyer asked: 'Okay, it was sex, correct?'
　
'Yes,'' Miller said.
　
But the minister said the encounters 'came to a crashing halt' when several women in the church accused the assistant of having sex with them.
　
The names of the assistant and his wife were not disclosed, and Miller told the newspaper that he was concerned that revisiting the incident would 'irreparably' hurt some people.
　
The pastor sparked controversy last week when he ordered about 50 married church officials to delete their Facebook accounts or quit their leadership positions.
　
He had previously asked married worshippers to share their login information with their spouses - as he does - and said he would leave the site this week.